Move away from your kinks and into real and loving relationships
I was a lifestyle Dominatrix for many, many years. I'm smart and I'm willing to ask the hard questions. This means that when I partake in something, I never take it at face value. I always dig deep to the truth. BDSM is like most things- what we're using to run from our truth. It's no different than that TV show that you're mainlining so that you don't have to feel your feelings; any cigarette that you smoke to take some time to run away from the truth of your life. There's talk about consent in the BDSM community that makes us think that we're seeing clearly, making the decision to engage others in this way with clear insight into ourselves and why we're doing what we're doing. I've found that many folx in the BDSM community are emotionally unavailable and are hurting themselves more emotionally. Tiny penis? You're still lovable and can have a healthy, long term romantic relationship. Like to serve? You're still lovable and can have a healthy, long term relationship. Feel inferior? You're not. You're still lovable and can have a healthy, long term loving relationship. Have "weird" kinks? You're no different than most people. You're still lovable and can have a healthy, long term relationship. Anything I haven't listed that worries you?: You're no different than most people. There's nothing wrong with you. You're still lovable and can have a healthy, long term loving, romantic relationship. Let's talk about the real root of what draws you to some kinks and battle the lies that society tells you about what's "right" and "good" and "bad" and "wrong." Let's get you to the point where you remember that you deserve everything that you want and need.
My Goals/AdviceTo help you delve into the root of your fears and doubts to help you see that you are worthy of love.
My ExperienceI am a life coach.
Great call. Very understanding and encouraging to me. Very aware of my situation
Thanks for another great session. I appreciated all your experience and understanding of me.
Love Beyond Kink replied:Thank you!
Thanks for a nice conversation!
Love Beyond Kink replied:I'm so glad that something I said resonated with you. Thank you for saying so.
The best therapist hands down.
Love Beyond Kink replied:Thank you!
