Real Talk Real Experience and Real Relationship Advice with Heart and Honesty
Hi, I'm Charli. I'm a 36-year-old bisexual Asian woman who believes great conversations can change lives. I offer thoughtful, judgment-free advice on everything from vanilla to kinky interactions and romance to real-world relationships. I studied abroad in Germany (so yes, I cheer for their national soccer team for no other reason), went from shy high schooler to confident college woman, and now I'm here to help you understand yourself and others a little better. Whether you're exploring new dynamics, navigating love, or just need a space to vent with someone who listens, know that I've got you. Favorite movie? The Princess Bride. Drink of choice? Whiskey on the rocks. Sazerac if you're fancy. Let's talk about love, connection, and everything in between.

My Goals/AdviceMy goal is to make a safe place for ANYONE to ask all their questions about relationships, women, the queer experience. There are some things you just cannot ask the bros, and that is why I am here.
My EducationI have a bachelor's degree and have worked in all sorts of fields, nearly always involving communicating and connecting with people. So, if you want to talk? Let's talk!
My ExperienceBeing both a woman, a friend to men, women, and those on the spectrum between, as well as being a woman who has dated other women, I am familiar with all sides of the process. But, I've always been friends with guys. I only have brothers and have been with them through the highs and lows of their own relationships. I'm here to hear you out first, then, if you want it, give you advice you can use!

Challenge: Compliment your partner on something that isn't appearance related. Report back.

Let's be real, women can be confusing. I'm sure a chat with me will clear things up!

What if "one of the guys" was also a gal? Get insight into the things that confuse you and advice that makes sense.

All right, the stereotype was fun, but my real talent is being a good friend. Need one?